'Have' means possess - a pristine, integrated cake which can be sold, traded, shared or eaten. It is an asset. After you eat it, it is no longer an asset.
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Mental Possibilitywhy does the saying, "you cant have your cake and eat it too" make sense? i understand what is INTENDEDAren't you contradicting yourself here?
Mental Possibility i would argue that it should then say, "you cannot eat your cake and have (i.e. keep) it too".Maybe that was the original way of saying it, and people have changed it around since then. Say it the way that makes most sense to you.