Nothing grammatical dictates the word order. You can say you and we or we and you as you please. Other considerations may make you prefer one or the other.
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CliveWe usually 'go to' a party, not 'join'.Hi Clive
nona the britNo, we and you' or 'you and we' both sound unatural.