All these are OK: John and you, you and John You and him, him and you
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You got a raise
John got a raise
So you and John are both subjects in the sentence. If you combine the sentences, you will have: You and John (both) got a raise.
However, it is worth noting that 'You" is not a pronoun (like in your example "you and him...". Him- is an objective pronoun whereas "you" is a direct object. So if you say "you and him