She is worth to be pitied rather than to be contempted/ hated "Contempted" isn't a word. She deserves to be pitied rather than to be contempted /hated She deserves pity rather tan contempt/hate OK She is more pitiful than hateful OK . You could also say "contemptible" here.
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