'Wondered' is more distanced in directness, thus more diffident.
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moon7296I was wondering if you'd like to join us for dinner.In typical conversation, this phrase would be fine and quite common. You had dinner plan and wondered if your intended guest(s) would have time to join you, so you would say "I was wondering ...". " I am wondering if you'd like to join us for dinner " sugg