You can say that-- I probably have too-- but in writing, ' my wife's and my ' would be right, since there are two separate middle initials (one for each of you). Or turn it around : ' my and my wife's'. On the other hand, if you requested the removal of the single, common last name, it would properly be ' I and my wife's last name ' or ' My wife and my last name' .
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