Hi Colombo Usually people use "he" or "she" when referring to their pets because they know which gender their animal is. There is no "rule" that says a cat of unknown gender should be thought of as feminine. But there are many people who tend to see cats as having feminine qualities and dogs as having masculine qualities.
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I have never heard of inanimate nouns for which "he" is used instead of "it".
ColomboNo, although some people do this as an idiocyncracy. It's okay to use it if you don't know. If you are talking to the pet's owner, you can say "He (pause) (raised eyebrow) she? (pause while the owner tells you)... sure is a pretty thing" if you really want to find out.
So "she" isn't used for cats, as a general rule!?