The first sentence is correct. The noun ( paramour ) corresponds with the preposition without , not of , so you could also write … she is a paramour without whom they cannot be. (This sounds really old-fashioned.
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Can I use this form: "This is the car which I have always dreamed."Aspara GusThis is the car of which I have always dreamed.
avid learnerCan I use this form: "This is the car which I have always dreamed."With of, yes.