With all due respect, I would consider whom incorrect. The relative pronoun is the subject of the relative clause: They have found a man who they believe is the missing brother. CB
I saw this in Using English and see others also feel "who" is correct.
I read it exactly as Blue Jay: they believe him to be... I guess you can also read it as "they believe he is..."
I would totally agree that "they found the man who is..." requires "who" but with the "believed" part in there, I think you might be able to go either way.
Yes, its the "they believe" part that threw me off too. I had to do the he/him test on the sentence to see that CB was right. Who do they believe he is? They believe he is the missing brother. Whom do they believe him to be? They believe him to be the missing brother.