WHO or WHOM

i think the right answer is: my husband and I have two children who both were born in the united states

Your usage of "whom" is correct here. You have to use "whom" when you have a preposition such as "of" or "with" or "to."One way I like to remember of this is if you could replace the word with he/she/they = who. If you could replace the word with him/her/them = whom.

Anonymous i think the right answer is: my husband and I have two children who both were born in the united states

Hi, Anon.
To be "right," the answer would need come capital letters and a period.

Regards, - A.

Thanks!

kwn24I'm having trouble understanding when to use who and whom.Is this a correct usage of whom? ...

... both of whom ...

It doesn't look like you're having trouble.

of whom, to whom, in whom, for whom, by whom, with whom, through whom, about whom, without whom, ...

They're all the same. Preposition + whom. Easy