Both can be correct. "Spoke to" sounds like you did all the talking (or at least most of it) while "spoke with" sounds like there was more of a dialogue.
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Grammar GeekBoth can be correct. "Spoke to" sounds like you did all the talking (or at least most of it) while "spoke with" sounds like there was more of a dialogue.I really prefer that people speak "with" me rather than "to" me.