The thrust of your meaning aside, your use of the article "the" seems out of place. Whether in referring to the words ("life" and "death") or the concepts , no article is needed. ) I believe we may optionally use the article when we say, "the one and the other" (or, "one and/or the other"), but without "other," your use of "the one of my words" is unusual.
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