If the sentence ends with an "-ing" verb, then "help someone with doing something" seems OK to me. " If an object follows the "-ing" verb then I would, in theory at least, prefer an alternative wording. I don't think that "He helps me with reading my book" (for example) is egregiously wrong, and it's something I might say in conversation.
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