These are really not good words with which to begin a sentence-- they are conjunctions which suggest a close relationship with what precedes-- so please me cautious in doing so. In your examples: 'So, in fact and in all truth, the' -- the comma placement is fine, but the 'in fact and in all truth' is horribly cliché and should be excised. lords' and 'are' are, respectively.
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