what is the name and artist of this song

I don't know many of the words and the ones I do know i don't know if they're in the right place. it's something like i pulled up to the stop light looked to my ... i was with my ... you had your girls with you looking in the rearview making sure your s**t was tight....... where'd she go......If you can help please do. It's r&b or slow rap i think from the 90s sometime. also my sister has a song i think a girl and guy sings it she thinks the name is john doe, but everyone she's ever asked has never heard of it. i haven't eithe. thanks again.