He was talking about decaffeinated coffee (Decaf). People drink it to avoid the caffeine effect of regular coffee - getting lots of energy/hyperactive/over-excited. He was joking that she ought to drink decaf instead of normal coffee to help her calm down.
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Nona The BritIt was more gentle teasing than a joke, but yes, it sounds pretty normal.