#1 and #2 are bare infinitives; they are object complements (of the direct objects him and us respectively). #3 is the -ing participle construction serving the same function (object complement of them ). Yes, infinitives can serve various functions: object ( I want to go ), subject ( To dance well is my dream ).
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