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PreciousJones Posted 13 years ago
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So if you were molested and your molester dies before you come out that is not brave?

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So, if you were molested and your molester died before you came out. That is not brave?

Is the second one okay? Thank you.
  

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I think this needs more context for the meaning to be clear. Especially "come out" - what do you mean by that? Come out of a coma?

  • I think this needs more context for the meaning to be clear.
  • Especially "come out" - what do you mean by that?
  • Come out of a coma?
  • Admit?
  • What does bravery have to do with the situation?
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I think this needs more context for the meaning to be clear. Especially "come out" - what do you mean by that? Come out of a coma? Admit? What does bravery have to do with the situation?
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For a hypothetical scenario, say
eg So, if you were molested and your molester died before you came out, that would not be brave?

I don't understand the meaning here.
Came out of where?
What does the braver
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CliveFor a hypothetical scenario, sayeg So, if you were molested and your molester died before you came out, that would not be brave?I don't understand the meaning here.Came out of where?What does the bravery relate to?Clive
Letting your friends and family know about the incident.
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I haven't heard the expression used in the context of abuse.
I've only heard it used in the context of declaring publicly that one is gay.
The full expression for this is 'Come out of the closet'.)


Clive

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