My friend told me a week ago before a party that she was really sick with the flu. <br/><br/>A week later we're talking about going to a party the next day, but again she tells me she can't attend the party so I say:<br/><br/><b>So you hadn't been messing around about having a cold.</b> I seriously thought you were just saying it 'cause you didn't want to party that night.<br/><br/>Can the past perfect tense be used here?<br/><br/>Or should it be:<br/><br/><b>So you weren't messing around about having a cold.</b> I seriously thought you were just saying it 'cause you didn't want to party that night. <br/><br/>Thank you.