Not sure how to phrase the question exactly, but I find that many people tend to use "I was wondering ..." when they write this sentence, while in my mind, they actually "are" wondering about something ... say, I get a message that says "Hey, xxx, I was wondering if you happen to know yyy" I presume when that person wrote the sentence, he was actually "wondering" right at that moment if I know yyy. So why then did he use "I was", rather than "I am" ? Is it a mistake on his part or my misunderstanding of the timeline of the sentence ?
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We can use either. In fact, I've heard "I was just wondering" [just= right now, not only, here]. Another example.
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We can use either.
In fact, I've heard "I was just wondering" [just= right now, not only, here].
Another example.
The phone rings, I answer it, and you are at the other end.
"I was just thinking about you".
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We can use either. In fact, I've heard "I was just wondering" [just= right now, not only, here]. Another example. The phone rings, I answer it, and you are at the other end. "I was just thinking about you".
I was wondering if (you ...) is a common formula of politeness. The time represented by the tense should not be taken seriously -- although, even so, some wondering probably occurred before the question was asked, so the use of the past is not entirely unreasonable. Note also: Can you stay a minute? I wanted to ask you something. Did you know that Mr