A wand can be any manageable size. Fairies' wands are smaller than wizard's wands because fairies are smaller than wizards (except for Pinball Wizards, which are the same size). Rods are generally sturdier, as they are usually used to support in some way, or to be wielded as quasi-weapons.
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