The second to would, indeed, indicate a third party.
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Anonymous1) You should send the letter to Bill and Sam.It is ambiguous - you could be sending one letter to them at a shared address, or two letters at separate addresses.
Anonymous2) You should send the letter to Bill and to Sam.It is unambiguous.