I'd say it's up to your boss to say whether it's okay or not. Since he has already said so, perhaps the thing to do is send an e-mail to him copying her and asking for him to clarify his position on this. Or perhaps you don't want to copy her - in case he comes back and says he'd really prefer if you didn't use contractions.
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