Use of 'Can I ' ???

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I would like to ask some questions about the usage of 'Can I'

As far as I know, we use 'can I' when we order something at a restaurant and request something.

But, in some situations, I feel kinda awkward.

For example, when I'm at a bank and ask the staff to put a waiver on my account

can I say

1. can you put a waiver on my account??

2. can I put a waiver on my account??

3. I would like to put a waiver on my accout.

which one is right???

Thanks : ]

Clive · Accepted Answer

Hi,

I would like to ask some questions about the usage of 'Can I'

As far as I know, we use 'can I' when we order something at a restaurant

These forms are all pretty common in a restaurant.

I'd like the fish and chips, please.

I'll have the fish and chips, please.

Can I have the fish and chips. please?

and request something.

But, in some situations, I feel kinda awkward.

For example, when I'm at a bank and ask the staff to put a waiver on my account

can I say

1. can you put a waiver on my account?? Yes

2. can I put a waiver on my account?? Yes

3. I would like to put a waiver on my accout.Yes

which one is right??? All are OK. And don't forget to say 'please'.

Clive

Avangi · Answer

Welcome to English Forums, sjh. Thanks for joining us! [<:o)]

What usually comes up is "can" (to be able) vs. "may" (to be permitted.)

The one that bugs me is, "Can I get a glass of water?"
I want to say, "Sure! Go for it!"

In polite society, "May I please have X?" is usually considered preferable to "Can I have X," even in a restaurant.

Your bank example is different.
"Can you put a waiver on my account?" is a legitimate question, especially if you don't know the answer. You're inquiring as to whether it's possible. The teller may explain some contingencies which help you decide if you really want to do it.

"Can I put a waiver on my account?" could be taken either way: (1) you want to know if it can be done, (2) You' re asking very casually for the teller to do it. "May I please put a waiver on my account?" or "Would you please put a waiver on my account?" would be more generally acceptable.

"I would like to put a waiver on my account" is also perfectly acceptable, although it seems to assume that you know it can be done.

"Could I please have/do X" is usually a good substitute for "Can I have/do X" in most situations.

Best regards, - A.

Edit. Reading through Clive's post, I'm inclined to agree that your "Can I" examples are in fact used a large percentage of the time. Don't let me influence you to change your style.

Another common restaurant expression not yet mentioned is, "Let me have the biscuits and gravy." Also, "I'm going to try the short ribs." (Some of these expressions may be regional.)

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