No, you are off the mark. Equanimity involves having the capacity to let others be themselves and make their own choices, even if they are unwise, recognizing that we can't make others' decisions for them or alter the consequences of their decisions. = Equanimity means letting others choose (even if their choices are not wise), because we know that we can neither make their choices for them nor change the results of their choices.
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