I would suggest using tone here instead of shade. Where shade and tone have similar meanings is most often in reference to color. " Your other suggested ways of expressing yourself would be perfectly acceptable as well.
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Pamela81I don´t like the shade of this conversationNo. You definitely need 'tone' here.
Pamela81I do not like the direction our conversation is goingNot b
Pamela81"I don´t like the way you are dealing with me" Does it work?Yes. It works. It's a little confrontational, but it works.