The difference is that "tolerance" is the action or process of exhibiting the referenced attitude; "toleration" is the result of that action or process. Many -ence words have a matching form in -ency that differentiates as "state of" rather than "action or process of", but there is no "tolerancy". Well, blow me down, mates, there is, though the OED marks it "rare".
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