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Movo Posted 8 years ago
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To Me?

Hi,


In "The waiter was discourteous to me", can we find out if, without any further context, the waiter actually had interacted with the speaker or not? I mean, maybe s/he has observed the behavior of the waiter and reached this conclusion without any engagement with him, is that possible?

Thank you.

  

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Where there was no interaction between the waiter and the speaker, that meaning of "to me" might be intended and understood in one case in a million, but if that meaning were really intended, it would likely be said as "In my opinion the waiter was discourteous". CJ

  • Where there was no interaction between the waiter and the speaker, that meaning of "to me" might be intended and understood in one case in a million, but if that meaning were really intended, it would likely be said as "In my opinion the waiter was discourteous".
  • CJ
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Where there was no interaction between the waiter and the speaker, that meaning of "to me" might be intended and understood in one case in a million, but if that meaning were really intended, it would likely be said as "In my opinion the waiter was discourteous".

CJ

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movo"The waiter was discourteous to me",

It is understood from this that there was interaction. This interpretation is not solely a function of "to me", but involves "was" too. For example, "The waiter seemed/appeared discourteous to me" need not necessarily imply direct interaction.

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