I saw some recent and related threads on this topic and I have a question of my own. I learned long ago that 'this' is for things that are close and 'that' for things far away, as a general rule, et cetera. But it's not always so easy to determine.
For example, I am sitting in Budapest with my friend and we two look at a photo of Eiffel Tower on computer. She says 'what's this?' The picture is close to us both, so 'this' is okay. But I see that native speakers also say 'what's that?' in such a situation. I explain it: the computer is close to them, but Eiffel Tower is far in their minds, so it's that.
Or we are doing a presentation in the office. We all sit in one end of the room and watching a presentation on a large screen in the other end of the room. Logically, I say 'That person on the screen' because his image is far away. But here I notice that English speakers also say 'This person' on this screen'. I explain it: distance doesn't matter, what matters is this person we are discussing now.
I think I am analyzing this too much. It seems English speaking people just say 'this' or 'that' in such situations depending on which word comes first to their lips.
Am I right?
Thank you for your attention and help.
AO
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I think the distance is relatively unimportant. Two cyclists compare each other's bicycles: “That’s a nice bike you are riding. "
— Wilpeter
I think the distance is relatively unimportant.
Two cyclists compare each other's bicycles: “That’s a nice bike you are riding.
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I think the distance is relatively unimportant. Two cyclists compare each other's bicycles: “That’s a nice bike you are riding. It is sportier than this one.” This sometimes implies ownership or possession: “This book I am holding was left here overnight.” “That is a nice suit you are wearing!” "This jacket I'm wearing belonged to my father."
Mr. Wilpeter, thank you for this reply. So in my examples (two people sitting near a computer screen and asking "What's this/that in the picture on the screen"?) or an office sitting across the room from a large screen and the presenter saying 'this/that (peson on the screen) man is the founder of the company'
- the speaker can use either 'this' or 'that' without being afraid of making a
Yes, grammatically either is acceptable. Some people prefer always using "that". "That man on the left is the manager and that lady on the right is a teller."
Just to add a few things. As Wilpeter has pointed out, geography is not the main determining factor in many situations in which you use this/that (and these/those if plural). Sure, you say "this is a beautiful house" when you enter someone's house and "that is an ugly house" when you point to the house across the street from your (delighted!) host, but spatial dim