'That' may be more common, but there is nothing wrong with 'this'. It is certainly not worth arguing about.
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Gene93 when we refer to something said or done, we use "that".This is incorrect. The demonstratives have a conceptual aspect of proximity which may vary somewhat with the speaker.
Gene93Does that mean that it is all up to the speaker?And the proximity of the referent.