#2 and #4 are accepted by conservative grammarians and some teachers but eschewed by those who are politically conscious. #1 and #3 are eschewed by conservative grammarians and many teachers but accepted by most descriptivists nowadays at least informally. Your best bet is to pluralize and avoid all pitfalls: We all want to be better persons, so we should all do our best.
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