0Probably because it's quite 01font00informal02font00,and if you don't happen know the person well it might be percieved as a sign of being rude.02br 02br 00 PS My 15 y.o. apprentice 00called00 me '01font00man02font00' eventhough I am a female050010id1
0It's extremely unprofessional. Don't use it at work. Don't call your teacher Dude. It's hardly arrogant to not want to be called that.02br 02br 00Perhaps the speaker means to use it to convey a sense of friendly comaraderie, but it makes you sound like a California teenager. It tends to come before a comment that is spoken in a saracstic or condesending way. Dude, like, don
01) Because it is teenage slang and not appropriate everywhere.02br 02br 002) It also means that you see yourself on the same 'level' as the person you are talking to. Rather like calling someone 'pal' or 'mate' and that is not appropriate with everyone.02br 02br 003) It can demonstrate a contemptuous attitude towards the person you are talking to as it is
0 Whould you like to be called sweetie by a complete stranger? Informal language is informal language and you should be careful while using it. I worked in an international environment and one of my assistant, a Bulgarian girl, made the big mistake to say a colleague, he was a child. The colleague, an other assistant, was from Palestina and not pleased. He said he want to kill her and he had to
0<edited to remove reference to ethnic group>02br 02br 00I would call him a psychopath or a fanatical maniac, would it describe him best? It seems to me that you like his attitude and are speaking in his defence.0-
0 If a gal called me sweetie I would be pleased, if a dude called me sweetie I would find it gay and object to that.02br 00Who on earth told you I wasn't a teenager?0-
0The attitude that you can call people anything you like even if they don't like it, is a very teenage attitude, so that news doesn't surprise me.02br 02br 00Like most slang, it's a word that is appropriate with some people and not with others. Life is easier if you learn the difference.0-