"in which we had been, so unexpectedly to me, involved" modifies "the confusion and lowness of spirits". "so unexpectedly to me" modifies "involved". No to the last question.
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park sang joonI was such a fool.I think you are doing well to tackle Dickens at all. His elaborate style can be heavy-going even for native readers.