That is very distressing (~ distress or anxiety causing) /distressful (~ painful, distress causing, distress feeling) news , and I am certainly sorry to hear it. Both ‘distressing’ and ‘distressful’ fit in the above sample and convey a similar idea.
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CalifJimIn my opinion, distressing is by far the more usual choice.I agree.
CJ