" -- "would" indicates habitual behaviour; "was able" suggests that it was a beneficial thing. Often it would be sufficient just to say "Let me know ten minutes before we get there". Your fuller version is OK too though (provided the journey is sufficiently long for it to be considered that you "are arriving" a full ten minutes before you literally do arrive).
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