To "talk something over" means to talk about something at length, talk about all aspects of it. To "bottle something up" means to close it up tightly in a bottle (or, metaphorically, inside yourself) so that it can't get out. We might say that someone has "bottled up their feelings" and it would be better to "let them out" by talking about them.
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