" Yes, everyone would say this. The subjunctive "if she were not enjoying the party" means that, in fact, she's enjoying the party, so in my humble opinion, you would have to resort to using something like Of course, I don't know, but if she were enjoying the party, she wouldn't look so bored, would she?
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