During my recent trip through western Canada, I came across a number of people who used 'him/her' as the subject pronoun when used in a compound subject: "him and his uncle arrived later"; "him and his son did such-and-such"; "her and her friends had tea at the Banff Springs Hotel". I would consider the above usage wrong. From all the books I've read, this usage is never the correct form.
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CalifJimIt seems to me that I've heard that construction here in the U.S. from time to time, but all in all, quite rarely. Maybe they were visitors from Canada?
MrPedanticIt's very common in BrE, from all kinds of speaker.OMG!
And sometimes a speaker who says "him and his brother did X" will not be averse to a "now it's up to you and I".
MrP