0 Hi everyone! 02br 00The book “English Grammar In Use. Intermediate Students, Cambridge University Press” tells us: 02br 00The following verbs are not NORMALLY used in Continues Tenses (using the “ing” form of the verb), although you can form the gerund with them: 02br 00To like, to love, to hate, to want, to need, to prefer, to know, to realize, to suppose, to suggest, to mean, to understand, to believe, to remember, to belong to, to contain, to consist, to depend, to seem, to promise, to apologize, to advise, to insist, to agree, to refuse. And the verbs of perception: to see, to hear, to smell, to taste, to feel. 02br 02br 00How do I should consider the word “normally” used in capitals by the book? Please, consider these situations written in Continuous (using the “ing” form of the verb): 02br 001.- Cannot I say: 02br 00a.- “Are you suggesting that my friend Benny is a liar” 02br 00b.- “You’re insisting too much on that!” 02br 00c.- “Are they refusing my offer?” 02br 00d.- “I’m preferring now white T-shirts more than black ones” 02br 00e.- “Are you advising me?” 02br 00f.- “Are you seeing me?”; “Are you hearing they?” (instead of Can you see me?; Can you hear me?) 02br 00g.- “I’m feeling that I cannot learn English without English Forums” 02br 02br 002.- I have first met Sarah two months ago. But day by day, I realize I don’t like Sarah for several reasons. Cannot I say “You know what Sarah; I’m knowing you day by day”? (As a ironic form of talking) (Maybe there is in English another form to say the same ironic sentence –and I would like to know it: a friend says that “I can know you day by day”-, but you please concentrate in my question about the use of “knowing”. If that use is not NORMAL but acceptable, say in literature). Or: “I’m hating you more and more every day” 02br 00If the point is: They CANNOT be used in Continuous Tenses, then why the word NORMALLY and not to say: “Don’t use the following verbs in Continuous Tenses” 02br 02br 003.- I have first met Sarah two months ago. But day by day, I realize I’m falling in love with her. Cannot I say “You know what Sarah; I’m loving you day by day”? 02br 02br 00Please, help. 02br 00Eladio 02br 0-
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" means there is not often a need to use these forms. When used they would have some extraordinary or idiosyncratic meaning. - “I’m preferring now white T-shirts more than black ones” 01b 00No.
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" means there is not often a need to use these forms.
When used they would have some extraordinary or idiosyncratic meaning.
- “I’m preferring now white T-shirts more than black ones” 01b 00No.
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0 Most likely, "not normally used ..." means there is not often a need to use these forms. When used they would have some extraordinary or idiosyncratic meaning. 02br 02br 00a.- “Are you suggesting that my friend Benny is a liar?" 01b00OK02b02br 00b.- “You’re insisting too much on that!” 01b00OK (?)02b02br 00c.-
0 Hello CJ 02br 02br 00I am interested in Eladio's questions and your answers,because I also have troubles in "abnormal" usages of progressive tenses. Could you help me by giving additional answers? 02br 01blockquote
00a.- “Are you suggesting that my friend Benny is a liar?" 11b10OK12b12blockquote
0 Paco, 02br 02br 00By and large it seems to me that you have a good instinct for these turns of phrase. I think your analysis of such structures as "These actions [suggest / *are suggesting] ..." is quite accurate. 02br 02br 00Your ideas about emotion, anger, or irritation are also quite right for the progressive forms in question. 02br 02br
0 Hello CJ 02br 02br 00Thank you for your compliment. How to use English progressive constructs properly is still a problem to me. I have to consult with dictionaries and grammar books every time I use them. 02br 02br 00paco 0-
0 Thank you, CJ for your answers and Paco for his comments. My conclusions: 02br 001.- The use of constinuous/progressive tenses is controversial, at least with the verbs I listed. 02br 002.- I have to study much more about this. This is "still a problem to me". 02br 00Could anyone else help with comments and examples? PLEASE!! 02br 00Eladio 0-
0 Hi! 02br 00Please, see what I have found in the Longman Dictionary of Contemporary English by the word “get”: 02br 00“17) get to see/know/understand etc.: to gradually begin to see, know, understand etc. Example: I'm sure the kids will soon get to like each other” 02br 02br 00This is, from my point of view, the solution to my questions about those ve