well, it seems like old saying or something, is't from China ? 3 ; i think it's encouraging writing ur diary, maybe one day it can be some thing important.. 1 ; well it says that it's better for men to be the unique known for a woman, even if she is not beautiful, and it's not good for him to be one of her friends even if she's beautiful !
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Fisharound1. It is better to be first with an ugly woman than the hundredth with a beauty. An ugly woman is likely to find it difficult to attract a man, so she will be untouched. A beautiful woman will attract many men so is "spoiled goods"..
It's a thoroughly misogynistic aphorism.
FisharoundThanks MusilimahNo I'm not...and please be patient : )
Are u native speaker?