Your two underscored phrases are related. "To take something out of context" is a very well-known problem, in which someone tries to guess at the meaning of a portion of something without having access to the rest of it - or deliberately omits certain parts to make it misleading. So he doesn't know if a "personal relationship" is indicated.
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