Yes, that's pretty much it. "where anybody is in a song" needn't specifically refer to just the rhythm; it could, for example, refer to confusion about whether the band is going to play a verse or a chorus. But because the drummer is speaking it's reasonable to assume that the confusion is probably related in some way to rhythm.
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