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Apatzinguense Posted 6 years ago
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I would like to know why there seems to be a sense of inappropriateness when one says, "excuse me" to someone, especially when the person being told is a woman. In my native Spanish and in the particular culture I was raised, it is considered a very polite way to say "move out of the way", and the person who uses "excuse me" is considered polite and refined. However, in American English, I have noticed, that doesn't seem to be the case.

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I would like to know why there seems to be a sense of inappropriateness when one says, "excuse me" to someone, especially when the person being told is a woman. In my native Spanish and in the particular culture I was raised, it is considered a very polite way to say "move out of the way", and the person who uses "excuse me" is considered polite and refined. However, in American English, I have noticed, that doesn't seem to be the case.

  • I would like to know why there seems to be a sense of inappropriateness when one says, "excuse me" to someone, especially when the person being told is a woman.
  • In my native Spanish and in the particular culture I was raised, it is considered a very polite way to say "move out of the way", and the person who uses "excuse me" is considered polite and refined.
  • However, in American English, I have noticed, that doesn't seem to be the case.
  • Any comments about this topic?
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I would like to know why there seems to be a sense of inappropriateness when one says, "excuse me" to someone, especially when the person being told is a woman. In my native Spanish and in the particular culture I was raised, it is considered a very polite way to say "move out of the way", and the person who uses "excuse me" is considered polite and refined. However, in American English, I hav

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I've spent a lot of time visiting the USA, and I have never noticed the concerns you are expressing about this phrase.

Consider this definition from an American dictionary.

excuse me

? Excuse me is used as a polite way of starting to say something. It can be used when you are interrupting someone, trying to get someone's attention, or disagreeing with some
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apatzinguenseI would like to know why there seems to be a sense of inappropriateness when one says, "excuse me" to someone

I have never heard about this with regard to American English; however, there are British people who are absolutely enraged when Americans (e.g., visiting London) use this phrase instead of "Sorry". They seem to sense a very big

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