'Looks as if' is often interchangeable with 'seems as if' when there is a visual element (physical or metaphorical). In #1, no one is looking at the children; the speaker is only pondering collected information. Contrariwise, in #2 the clouds are so obviously a visual element that only 'looks as if' seems the mot juste .
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