I'm not sure that there is a simple answer to this one, Hanuman. Certain structures are normally used for requests-- can you, could you, would you; can I, could I, may I, might I; can we, could we, shall we. Other structures are used for orders-- shouldn't you, hadn't you better, oughtn't you.
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