So would the age have to be expressed in the present tense? What if you didn't know them? And you want to talk about them to your friend. Would you have to use the past tense otherwise?
It would make more sense to give their age in the present unless the befriending was a long time ago. If you don't know them, then you probably don't know their age, do you?
That's true but what if you saw them downtown, didn't necessarily know them but want to talk about them by approximating how old they are, would that change the way the tense is given?
And another thing, If I want to talk about a group of people that I met long ago, and I didn't know them, do I say "I met them once but I didn't really know them" or "I met them once but I don't really know them"