The indefinite article certainly helps in the determination, though I doubt that it is much of a deciding point. In any case, your clause is most likely restrictive (defining) because the gentleman in this isolated sentence has no definition otherwise-- it is as simple as that. Even with 'the', it could just as well be a defining clause in this isolated situation, as no other information exists about the gentleman or the situation.
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