In "if something happens that wasn't intended by me, it isn't an action of mine", that wasn't intended by me is the relative clause, and that is the relative pronoun. ," is an acceptable way of saying the same thing. Once again, that wasn't intended by me is the relative clause, and that is the relative pronoun.
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