"a" is grammatically necessary. No offence, but the sentence is pretty horrible, what with the comma splice and everything, and it seems to be giving contradictory messages ("please write" feels like an instruction, which doesn't fit with the fact that they can apparently decline to do what you ask). I don't feel confident about trying to improve it without knowing more about the circumstances in which you are writing.
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