Which of the following sentences is correct and natural? 1. He should have fought in the first Gulf War but he deserted.
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Nef"Had to" usually means "needed to and did." "Had to" implies that there is no real alternative or choice. It is stronger than "was supposed to" or "should have," which usually mean "it would have been better to...." "Supposed to" might also imply a sort of measurement against someone else's idea of expected behavior. To me, "I should have" indicates personal acceptan
MrPedanticIn #2, on the other hand, "he had to win" is a reported version of:Hello MrP
3. I have to win!
So the first clause reports a personal sense of "necessity", at a point where "winning" was simply one possibility. As the second clause shows, it was in fact also possible for him not to win.
MrPedanticYes; and on reflection, reported "had to's" often turn out to be not quite as necessary as was supposed:Hi Mr P
1. She said she had to go home; but now I know that wasn't true.
2. I thought I had to do it, so I tried; but in the end, I couldn't quite manage it.
3. They knew they had to be here at 6! [They're not here.]